Now What Living the Lex Vivendi

Living the Lex Vivendi

​The Easter Vigil was a night of transformation. We stood at the font, we were sealed with the Spirit, and we sat at the Table for the first time. But as we move through Mystagogy, we realize that the Vigil wasn’t the finish line—it was the starting block.

Since the beginning of our journey together at St. Kevin’s, we have emphasized that keeping our eyes fixed on the Cross is the key to everything. At its heart, our journey isn't just about learning; it is about building a personal, lasting relationship with Christ. Ultimately, the most important thing we can do is draw closer to Him, allowing His love to guide every step we take:

​Lex Orandi & Lex Credendi

​The Law of Prayer and the Law of Belief.

We have spent months learning how the Church prays and what she believes. We’ve seen how our liturgy at St. Kevin’s shapes our hearts. But these two pillars are meant to lead us to the next two: how we live and how we act.

​Lex Vivendi: The Law of Living

​To live a Catholic life is to recognize that we are now "Christ-bearers" in Welland. Our Lex Vivendi is our daily witness. It’s how we treat our families, how we conduct ourselves in our jobs, and how we show up for our community. At St. Kevin’s, we live this out through our Small Groups, Bible Studies, and organizations like the CWL and Knights of Columbus. These aren't just clubs; they are the "connective tissue" of our Christian life.

​Lex Agendi: The Law of Acting

​Now, we reach the "front lines." Our belief must move into motion. St. James tells us that faith without works is dead. Lex Agendi is the outward expression of the grace you received at Easter.

​God has given each of you a specific Charism (a spiritual gift) that the rest of us need. If you don’t share it, the Body of Christ at St. Kevin’s is missing a piece!

• ​Are you called to the Altar? Consider being a Lector or Altar Server.
• ​Is your heart for the poor? Join the St. Vincent de Paul Society.
• ​Do you have a gift for hospitality? Our Ushers and Greeters are the "first responders" of our parish.
• ​Is your gift quiet service? The Altar Guild or Gardening Ministry keeps our "Home" beautiful.

​Your New Mission

​As your RCIA journey shifts into parish life, don't be afraid to try something new. You don't need to be a lifelong Catholic to serve; you just need to be a baptized one!

​The way we pray (Orandi) and the way we believe (Credendi) must find their fulfillment in the way we live (Vivendi) and the way we act (Agendi).

​Reflection for the Neophytes: Look at the list of ministries in the back of the bulletin this Sunday. Which one makes your heart beat a little faster? That might just be the Holy Spirit whispering, "This is your Lex Agendi."

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Saying Grace: A Simple Act of Gratitude

 

As we journey together in RCIA, we're learning to deepen our connection with God in all aspects of our lives. One simple yet powerful way to do this is by saying grace before meals or gatherings. It's a moment to pause, acknowledge God's presence, and express our gratitude.

Understanding the Formula: A Simple Guide

While there's no single "correct" way to say grace, a helpful formula can guide us in creating meaningful prayers. Here's a basic structure:

1. Acknowledge Who We Are Praying To:
   • Begin by addressing God directly. This could be "Heavenly Father," "Lord God," "Gracious Creator," or any name that resonates with you.
2. Give Thanks:
   • Express gratitude for the specific blessings you're about to receive. This might be the food before you, the fellowship of your RCIA group, or the opportunity to learn and grow in faith.
3. Ask for Something:
   • Conclude by asking for a blessing or a specific intention. This could be a blessing on the food, a request for guidance during your meeting, or a prayer for those in need.

Examples:

Here are a couple of examples, including one tailored for an RCIA meeting:

• Simple Mealtime Grace:
  • "Heavenly Father, we thank you for this food that you have provided. Bless it and nourish our bodies. We ask that you also bless those who are hungry and in need. Amen."
• Grace Before an RCIA Meeting:
  • "Lord God, we come before you as we gather for our RCIA meeting. We thank you for bringing us together on this journey of faith. We ask for your guidance and wisdom as we learn and grow. May your Holy Spirit be with us, opening our hearts and minds to your truth. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Creating Your Own Grace:

Now, let's encourage you to create your own grace! Here's how:

1. Personalize It:
   • Use language that feels comfortable and authentic to you.
2. Be Specific:
   • Mention the specific blessings you are grateful for.
3. Reflect on Your Needs:
   • Consider what you need in that moment and ask for it in your prayer.
4. Practice:
   • The more you practice, the more natural it will become.

Why Say Grace?

• Gratitude:
  • It fosters a spirit of gratitude and appreciation for God's gifts.
• Awareness of God's Presence:
  • It reminds us that God is present in every moment of our lives.
• Spiritual Connection:
  • It strengthens our connection with God and deepens our prayer life.
• Community:
• It can be a way to unite as a community and share a common prayer.

Remember:

For where two or three are gathered in my name, I am there among them.”

(Matthew 18:20)

Saying grace is a simple yet profound way to acknowledge God's presence and express our gratitude. As you continue your RCIA journey, may these moments of prayer bring you closer to Christ.

Looking Within: The Scrutinies on the RCIA Journey

 

The Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults (RCIA) is a journey of faith, preparation, and transformation. For those preparing to be baptized at Easter, known as the Elect, the Scrutinies are a crucial part of this process. Celebrated on the Third, Fourth, and Fifth Sundays of Lent, these rites are "rites for self-searching and repentance" .  They invite the Elect to look within, acknowledging weaknesses and sins, and seeking God's mercy.

What are the Scrutinies?

The Scrutinies use specific Gospel readings to explore themes of conversion and new life:

1. First Scrutiny: The Samaritan Woman at the Well (John 4:5-42). This Gospel focuses on Christ as the Living Water. Just as Jesus offered the Samaritan woman a spring of eternal life, this scrutiny calls the Elect to focus on conversion and the new life they will receive through the sacraments. The primary symbol is water, representing the new life God offers.
2. Second Scrutiny: The Healing of the Man Born Blind (John 9). This Gospel presents Jesus as the Light of the World. The man's gradual transformation from physical blindness to spiritual sight mirrors the Elect's journey toward enlightenment through faith. This scrutiny emphasizes that we need to be enlightened, to have our patterns of sin and blindness revealed, and to grow in God's truth.
3. Third Scrutiny: The Raising of Lazarus (John 11:1-45). In this final scrutiny, Jesus reveals himself as the Resurrection and the Life. As Jesus calls Lazarus from death to life, the Elect prepare to "die with him" in baptism and embrace new life in the risen Christ.

Why Reflect on the Scrutinies?

The Scrutinies are more than just steps towards baptism; they are opportunities for deep reflection and transformation. As The Western Kentucky Catholic states, the scrutinies serve as a profound call to self-evaluation. Here's why reflecting on them is important:

• Self-Examination: The scrutinies encourage a careful examination of one's life, acknowledging weaknesses and sins, and seeking God's mercy.
• Spiritual Growth: By confronting the "darkness within" and moving toward the "light of redemption," individuals can experience spiritual growth and renewal.
• Community Support: The Catholic community plays a vital role in supporting the Elect through this process, reaffirming its commitment to accompany each member on their spiritual journey.
• Deeper Understanding of Sin and Salvation: The scrutinies help the Elect understand the mystery of sin and their need for salvation, filling them with the spirit of Christ. (Corpus Christi Catholic Church, Phoenix, AZ)
• Personal Renewal: Even for those already baptized, the scrutinies offer a chance to renew their faith and commitment to Christ. (St. Thomas More Catholic Church)

The scrutinies are not about finding what's wrong, but celebrating all that is beautiful, good, and true within us. Jesus "scrutinizes" us with Divine Light, revealing our value and calling us to new life and healing.

Journeying Through Holy Week: A Special Reflection for Our RCIA Community

 

Dear Friends in Christ,

As we move closer to the glorious celebration of Easter, we enter into the most sacred week of the liturgical year: Holy Week. For us Catholics, this week is a profound and deeply moving journey, a time to walk alongside Jesus in his final days, his suffering, death, and ultimately, his triumphant resurrection. As you prepare to receive the Sacraments of Initiation at Easter, understanding the significance of Holy Week takes on an even deeper meaning.

Think of Holy Week as the very heart of our Christian faith. It's not just a historical recounting of events; it's an active participation in the Paschal Mystery – the saving work of Jesus Christ. Each day of this week invites us to reflect, pray, and enter into the story that defines who we are as Catholics.

Let's briefly touch upon the key moments of Holy Week and why they are so important for us:

Palm Sunday (March 29th, 2026): This Sunday marks Jesus' triumphant entry into Jerusalem. The crowds hailed him as the Messiah, laying down palm branches in his path. We, too, wave palms in our churches, acknowledging Jesus as our King. However, this joyous celebration also foreshadows the suffering to come. It reminds us that even amidst praise and glory, the path to salvation often involves sacrifice.

Holy Thursday (April 2nd, 2026): This evening liturgy commemorates the Last Supper, the final meal Jesus shared with his disciples. It was during this meal that Jesus instituted the Eucharist, the true presence of his Body and Blood, which we receive at every Mass. He also washed the feet of his disciples, demonstrating the importance of humility and selfless service. For those of you preparing for First Communion, Holy Thursday offers a powerful glimpse into the profound gift you will soon receive.

Good Friday (April 3rd, 2026): This is a day of solemn reflection on the Passion and death of Jesus on the cross. We remember the immense love he had for humanity, a love so great that he willingly endured suffering and death for our salvation. It is a day of fasting, prayer, and often, veneration of the cross. As you prepare for Baptism and Confirmation, Good Friday underscores the reality of sin and the incredible sacrifice Jesus made to redeem us.

Holy Saturday (April 4th, 2026): This is a day of quiet anticipation. The Church is in mourning, reflecting on Christ's descent into the realm of the dead. There is no Mass celebrated until the Easter Vigil. This silence and waiting prepare us for the glorious news of the Resurrection. It's a time to contemplate the darkness before the dawn, the stillness before the explosion of new life.

The Easter Vigil (Saturday Evening, April 4th, 2026): This is the most magnificent liturgy of the entire year! We gather in darkness, light the Paschal Candle (symbolizing Christ our Light), and hear the stories of salvation history. It is during the Easter Vigil that you, our catechumens and candidates, will receive the Sacraments of Initiation – Baptism, Confirmation, and First Holy Communion – entering fully into the Catholic Church! The joy and hope of the Resurrection are palpable, a testament to Christ's victory over sin and death.

Easter Sunday (April 5th, 2026): We celebrate the glorious Resurrection of Jesus Christ! This is the culmination of Holy Week and the foundation of our faith. The empty tomb signifies the triumph of life over death, hope over despair. It is a day of immense joy and celebration, a reminder of the new life we have in Christ.

For you, our RCIA community, this Holy Week is particularly significant. You are on the threshold of entering into full communion with the Catholic Church. As you journey through these sacred days, allow yourselves to be drawn into the story of Jesus' love and sacrifice. Reflect on the gifts you are about to receive and the new life that awaits you in Christ.

We, your RCIA team and the entire parish community, are walking alongside you during this holy time. We pray that this Holy Week will be a time of profound grace and preparation for the incredible joy of Easter.

May the blessings of this holy season be with you all.

Preparing Our Hearts: Understanding Lent in the RCIA Journey

 

Welcome, RCIA participants! As we journey together towards full communion with the Catholic Church, we enter a special season called Lent. Lent is a 40-day period of preparation for Easter, the celebration of Jesus Christ's resurrection.

Why Lent for those entering the Church?

The origins of Lent are closely tied to the early Church's practice of preparing new members. Historically, Lent was a time for catechumens (those preparing for baptism) to undergo intense spiritual preparation before receiving the Sacraments of Initiation (Baptism, Confirmation, and Eucharist) at the Easter Vigil. It was a period of reflection, repentance, and deepening one's relationship with Christ. This tradition continues today, with Lent serving as a time for both those entering the Church and existing members to renew their faith.

Living Lent: Important Days

Lent begins on Ash Wednesday (February 18th,2026), a day of reflection on our mortality and need for God's grace. Other important days during Lent include:

• Maundy Thursday: Commemorates the Last Supper.
• Good Friday: Commemorates the crucifixion of Jesus.

Fasting

Fasting during Lent is a practice of self-denial, intended to help us focus on spiritual matters rather than physical comforts. Catholics between 18 and 59 years old are obliged to fast on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday, which means one full meal and two smaller meals that together don't equal a full meal. Those 14 and older are also obliged to abstain from meat on Ash Wednesday, Good Friday, and all Fridays of Lent. Many Catholics choose to "give up" something for Lent as a form of personal sacrifice.

Prayer

Lent is a time to deepen our prayer life. This can involve:

• Spending more time in personal prayer and reflection.
• Reading and meditating on Scripture.
• Participating in the Sacrament of Reconciliation (Confession).
• Praying the Rosary or other devotions.
• Attending daily Mass, if possible.

Through prayer, we seek to grow closer to God and align our lives with His will.

Almsgiving: More Than Just Giving Money

• Definition:
  • Almsgiving is the act of giving to those in need. This can involve donating money, food, clothing, or other resources.
  • It's also about acts of charity and kindness, such as volunteering time or offering assistance to those who are struggling.
• Spiritual Significance:
  • In the Catholic tradition, almsgiving is seen as a way to share God's gifts with others and to express our love for our neighbours.
  • It's a way to recognize that all we have comes from God and that we are called to be stewards of his blessings.
  • During Lent, almsgiving helps us to detach ourselves from material possessions and to focus on spiritual values.
• Practical Examples:
  • Donating to a local food bank or homeless shelter.
  • Volunteering at a soup kitchen or other charitable organization.
  • Giving money to a reputable charity that supports those in need.
  • Offering assistance to an elderly neighbour or someone who is ill.
  • simply acts of kindness to those around you.

Essentially, almsgiving is about putting our faith into action by showing compassion and generosity to those who are less fortunate.

Lent is a powerful time of grace and transformation. As we journey through this season together, let us embrace the opportunities for prayer, fasting, and almsgiving, preparing our hearts to celebrate the joy of Easter.

The Dignity of Life: A Seamless Garment of Prayer, Belief, and Action

 

In our recent RCIA sessions, we’ve been diving into the Beatitudes (Matthew 5:1-12). We’ve learned that Jesus wasn’t just giving us a "nice" list of qualities; He was giving us a roadmap for the Kingdom of God. At the very heart of that Kingdom is a radical truth that changes everything: The Dignity of the Human Person.

When Catholics talk about the "Dignity of Life," we aren't just talking about a political stance. We are talking about the fact that every human being—from the moment of conception to the moment of natural death—is created Imago Dei, in the image and likeness of God.

To live this out, the Church gives us a beautiful framework often called the "Four Laws." They show us that our faith must be a seamless garment.

1. Lex Orandi: The Law of Prayer

It starts at the altar. When we attend Mass, our prayers remind us that God is the author of all life. When we say "Lord, have mercy," or when we pray for the "vulnerable and the oppressed," we are training our hearts to recognize that life is a gift, not a commodity. We cannot truly worship the Creator if we disregard His creation.

2. Lex Credendi: The Law of Belief

Our prayer informs our creed. Because we worship a God who became human (the Incarnation), we believe that human life is now forever touched by the divine. We believe that every person—regardless of their health, wealth, or status—has a soul and an eternal destiny. This isn't an opinion; it is the foundation of our faith.

3. Lex Vivendi: The Law of Living

This is where the "Dignity of Life" gets personal. Lex Vivendi is our "way of life." It is the bridge where our beliefs become our character. It means cultivating a "Culture of Life" in our hearts every day. It’s choosing to be patient with a difficult neighbor, showing hospitality to a stranger, and treating every person with a radical respect that mirrors the love of Christ.

4. Lex Agendi: The Law of Acting

Finally, our faith must move our hands. If we pray correctly, believe truly, and live virtuously, we are compelled to act. This is the "output" of our faith. Whether it is defending the unborn, feeding the hungry, or standing up for the marginalized, our actions are the visible proof of the dignity we claim to believe in. As St. James reminds us, "Faith without works is dead."

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Reflection: Connecting to the Beatitudes

As we reflect on Matthew 5, we see that the Beatitudes are the ultimate school of dignity.

• To be "Merciful" is to recognize the dignity of the sinner.

• To be "Peacemakers" is to recognize the dignity of our enemies.

• To be "Pure in Heart" is to see God in every person we meet.

The Takeaway for our RCIA Journey: Our treatment of our brothers and sisters is the ultimate "litmus test" of our relationship with God. We leave the Mass each week not just to go back to our lives, but to find the same Christ we received in the Eucharist living in the poor, the lonely, and the forgotten.

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Discussion Question for the Comments: Which of the "Four Laws" (Orandi, Credendi, Vivendi, Agendi) do you find most challenging to live out in your daily life?